45. Seize your day or someone else will.

46. Success is too important to take seriously.

47. Only create an affinity with others who believe in same.

48. Be concerned with your image, it really does matter, even in your pajamas. Don't sleep nude, you'll live nude. Sleep in silk and live in silk.

49. Dress for where you want to be not where you had been.

50. Protect your reputation.

51. Build references that match your goals, nothing less.

52. Realize you are already a pillar of success; you just desire to climb a new peak.

53. Create a fan club.

54. Use common sense to balance.

55. Do better than your competitors.

56. Eat healthy and exercise daily. Get healthy--physically and mentally.

57. Accept responsibility.

58. Anger isn't in vocabulary of someone successful. Leave it in dictionary.

59. Check in with assumptions on a regular basis and clean, clean, clean them up immediately.

60. Clean house of all bad habits, not just one here and there. Toss them all out with bath water.

61. Push yourself to be challenged. Keep stretching; don't even think about anything that doesn't.

62. You have to want success, breathe it, eat it, dream it, pray for it, work at it, sacrifice for it, beg for it, to get it.

63. Express your gifts in highest manner.

64. Just because people believe something of you, doesn't make it so.

65. Don't take your lemons and make lemonade, trade them in for oranges because you can make more money with orange juice then lemonade.

66. Tunnel vision on what you want to succeed in is a good thing. Learn to say no often to anything else.

67. Motivational rage has no fear when it is powered by optimism.

68. Match your strengths and talents with opportunities in order to build a success formula.

69. Define yourself in terms of potential--the value you bring world not in context of your job, your role, or your relationships.

70. Know everything about your gifts/talents, skills, knowledge, loves/hates, beauties, fears, flaws, faults, and foibles.

71. Know what people pick up phone to call you for.

72. What do you naturally seek to do or possess? What are your obsessions? What do you naturally gravitate towards? These are your natural gifts.

73. Know your weaknesses and stay away from them.

74. Understand, accept, and embrace who you are--love you and be selfish about it.

75. An aura of self-confidence attracts attention.

76. Pay price, or your competitor¡¯s will.

77. Make your own breaks.

78. Develop a high degree of self-awareness.

79. Package your talents and money will follow.

80. Become charismatic.

81. Believe anything is possible.

82. Make something special happen everyday!

83. Be a success as a human being.

84. Everyday is a memory, draw that memory moment by moment, and picture will be one of complete success in everything you do.

85. The party is today not someday. Write party plan out and whom you want to invite. Don't let anyone crash your party.

86. Shine, it¡¯s perfectly okay to do so.

87. Success hours are when your dreams come true.

88. Become a good story pitcher.

89. Work hard, be prepared, and be available.

90. Are you willing to pay price for success?

91. There is going to be a time when a big audition will need to be performed, are you ready?

92. Be last one standing.

93. Never under estimate your competition or that you don't have any.

94. Luck has some control buttons, know what they are and learn to control them.

95. Your differences are your success.

96. Don't fall into pitfalls of doing things others want you to do.

97. Learn to be who you are. It¡¯s different than who you've learned to be in order to survive or please others.

98. Eliminate a barrier mindset: "If only I could master this, I'll have more to offer."

99. Write your obituary. Include at least five special qualities and five accomplishments (date not required).

100. Become a tiger in your own tank--go get them the¡¯r tiger.

(c) Copyright, Catherine Franz. All rights reserved.

Firstly, women should more pay more attention themselves. Do we love ourselves enough? Do we have a high level of self-esteem? Are we taking care of ourselves in same way we would take care of our partner? These acts of love to ourselves are essential to a healthy, loving relationship with our male partner. Women could also start paying clear attention to what it is that men like and need. Our man’s needs are certainly not being considered when we are busy with our girlfriends, beating up on every male in universe. Consider this:

Men like to feel encourages and appreciate for their efforts. Men like to feel recognized as very special in our lives. They would like to feel compassionate caring, and not one born out of neediness or excessive insecurity. They would like to feel loved.

Women are carers and givers of world and we can take lead and set a loving example to our male partners and our women friends. Many women just do not realise skills they have when it comes to relationships. We get very caught up with negative aspects of our male partners and sometimes forget about positive. Women are proactive, we can effect change if we learn how to handle and respond to certain situation. The following examples are based on some wonderful words of wisdom that I recently read in an on-line article by Nikki Katz. These ideas were a great inspiration and I share them with you now:

•Women have an outstanding capability to work as a team player and support everyone to keep things running proficiently. We, as women are good at creating a partnership with our men and therefore can further nurture and develop relationship.

•Women are great communicators. We are good listeners and extremely proficient at delivering our message to our men. When we are talking with men in our lives, we can be one who sets tone of conversation and we can create a safe arena for open communication.

•Women are creative, we can easily come up with ideas, solutions, and suggestions for many situations and if something does not work, we try something different. Men appreciate our creative abilities; they rely on us to create ideas to keep relationship happy and healthy.

•Women have an enormous capacity to empower and encourage ourselves and others around us. When we empower our men, we are letting him realise his ability. We can support our men to aspire to who they want to be, help ourselves realise our potential, and have our relationship progress into something amazing.

•Women have excellent nurturing skills; we know what someone needs, when they need it, and how to provide it to them. When we are nurturing relationship, we are lovingly caring for ourselves and our partner to progress and prosper with relationship.

•Women are tender human beings. We are naturally gentle, open and loving. Our relationships with our men need this type of cushioning against pressures in life. When we are caring and tender to our male partners, they will respond in kind.

•Women are vulnerable and know how to communicate their weaknesses. When we are feeling safe in our relationship, it is easy to be open up and reveal ourselves. Being vulnerable is a very effective thing to do for our relationships, because we are not closing off or getting defensive. We are holding out our hands and saying “Here I am.”

•Women have ability to be open with their feelings and thoughts. When we are being open and vulnerable, we are allowing ourselves to open up to someone else. When we are open, we create space for relationship to be wonderful. Opening our hearts and minds to our men allows him to be himself, feel accepted, and give us his best.

•As women, we are natural receivers. We may tend to think receiving is not as powerful as giving; yet receiving is giving, it is impossible to give to our men fully if we are unable to receive. Consider sexual act, whichever way we look at it, women are receivers, we receive our man into our bodies. A woman’s ability to receive is a wonderful gift, as it allows our man to give to us.

•Women are natural healers of world. We know how to soothe someone’s pain. When our man is hurting, we can help him heal by being tender, open and loving.

•Women’s intuition has been called a myth, however it is not. Women possess excellent intuitive skills. This is our sixth sense at work. We can use this special psychic ability to understand our men, and see what our relationship needs.

•When we rely on our intuition, it is easy to envision future – and when we envision future, we can have it happen. As women, we can see relationship as happy, romantic, passionate, loving, or as anything we want it to be.

These judgemental and critical attitudes have to stop. Women need to adopt an attitude of self-love and look deep into their own hearts and open up to loving men in their lives. Criticizing our male partners keeps us firmly entrenched as victims, and that is powerless and destructive. Is that what we want? Critical, negative and hurtful statements about our male partners enlarge emotional gap between men and women. Putting men in our lives down stirs up our angry, negative feelings and anger is a barrier to love and intimacy.

Finally; is being right or wrong in our relationships with men in our lives all that important? Love is more important than being right. Love means nothing when you choose negative attitudes and behaviours to being happy. Given a choice, wouldn’t we prefer love over being right? Love is only choice.