• Either bring a friend with you or have a friend remain close "on sly". If things get too weird, you can always duck out together. Someone would be less prone to pursuing you if you're not alone.

• Don't make your date an all-day affair. An hour or two is sufficient. In fact, you'll probably know in first few minutes if you want to see them again or not.

• Look for any strange behaviors. Someone who's disrespectful, inappropriate, or angers at drop of a hat is not type of person who exemplifies Christ, or is pleasant to be around. Also, watch for any discrepancies in what they've already told you. Is there a question they keep dancing around? A story that keeps changing? These are huge warning signs. Lastly, if you suspect that something's not on up-and-up, try this: look at ring finger of left hand. If there's a tan line or indentation where a wedding band usually lies, get out of there--FAST.

Remember, if at any time during online dating process you feel uncomfortable, you can turn around and walk away. Don't worry about hurting feelings or embarrassing someone. Your safety is much more important than that. Believe me, they'll get over it.

Tip #6: Listen to Your Heart

My nieces sing an adorable song that says, “Listen to your heart, pitter pitter pat. Your heart will tell you this and your heart will tell you that.” No truer words have ever been said. And that brings us to our last tip. It's one that I'm repeating because it's so important to Christian singles: Listen to still, small voice of Holy Spirit throughout. If something's wrong, He'll tell you. And if He does tell you something, don't ignore it. Christian singles can get so caught up in whirlwind emotions of a budding romance that other things get drowned out. Again, God knows what's best for you and yes, He wants you to have it. Trust in Him, and he will guide your path.

I then begin to sing this song, "Moses led God's children, forty years he led them, through storms and through night. We must be like Moses, we must keep on going, Caananland is just in sight!" Two or three other people joined me in singing that song, and it was beautiful. The presence of LORD was strong. I then woke up.