Going Seamless: Dissolving the Brain Divide

Written by Maya Talisman Frost


Are you a right-brainer or a left-brainer?

The greatest thinkers are at a loss when it comes to answering that question.

Just as we admire athletes who are able to hit a tennis ball or throw a javelin with either arm, we should emulate thinkers who engage fully in all kinds of activities without regard to whether or not it suits their specified brain orientation.

Labeling yourself as a certain kind of thinker is extremely limiting. Once we've established an idea about our preferences, we tend to veer in that direction every chance we get. We strengthenrepparttar image of ourselves as creative or analytical by repeatedly choosing activities that reinforce our concept of who we are. We forget about our infinite possibilities.

Perhaps you've had this very common dream: You're roaming around your house and suddenly discover a whole room you never knew existed. The thrill of learning about this brand new space to explore, decorate, and enjoy is palpable--especially if you live in a smallish house with four teenagers, as I do! It's disappointing to wake up and realize we don't really have that extra room. We become resigned to staying withinrepparttar 123348 known walls of our home.

We experience something similar when it comes torepparttar 123349 "rooms" in our mind. We close offrepparttar 123350 math, computer, science, investing and research rooms. We sealrepparttar 123351 doorways torepparttar 123352 painting, drawing, poetry, design and music rooms. We lock up entire wings, believing that we can't really "go there", and before we know it, we forgetrepparttar 123353 spaces were there at all.

We all know people who amaze us with their seemingly disparate skills--an accountant who paints beautiful landscapes, a chemical engineer who writes daring poetry, a surgeon with a passion for songwriting. We find it surprising only because we've put people in boxes based on their work. It's tempting to label ourselves and others according to our jobs, but one facet of our lives can never tellrepparttar 123354 whole story.

Jealousy

Written by Sue Dyson


Something profound happened to merepparttar other day. Actually, profound things happen to all of us every day. It's just a matter of paying attention. That's another story for another day.

Something occurred,repparttar 123347 circumstances not particularly relevant. What is relevant is my reaction,repparttar 123348 awareness of my mind set, what I did withrepparttar 123349 feelings andrepparttar 123350 outcome.

This person I know and respect, with his wisdom and experience, sent out a message to his list. It was so brilliant (to me!). I wished I hadrepparttar 123351 forethought to do it and immediately thought, "Why can't I do that?". An instant feeling of jealousy arose. I'm not proud to admit it! I'm notrepparttar 123352 jealous type. Those of you who know me personally could attest to that. These feelings completely caught me off guard. I am, however, very proud ofrepparttar 123353 process I put myself through to work it out.

Becauserepparttar 123354 feeling of jealousy was quite foreign to me, it was rather easy to instantly acknowledgerepparttar 123355 feeling was not me, rather I was a person experiencingrepparttar 123356 feeling. This enabled me to allow it to run its course.

This involves sitting withrepparttar 123357 feeling and all its discomfort. Oh, yeah, it was uncomfortable. Did not want to be feeling what I was feeling. I kept saying to myself, "This isn't me, this isn't me..." It did make me wonder what it was all about, though. Rather than block it out and ignore it, I decided to discover what it meant to me and my current situation. So I sat with it. Treated it like a new friend. Well, you know what I mean. Not chummy chummy, but a new acquaintance.

Eventually, after allowing it to turn, toss in my head, allowing it to just be there (and this comes with KNOWING without a doubt that all these feelings which come up serve as a purpose to our higher selves), a truth was revealed.

There is always a positive side to a perceived negative. Yin/yang ALWAYS. Trust this. Search for it, be open to it.

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