I couldn’t believe it. Sunday, in a queue, in my local food-store an Olympic athlete stood behind me, chatting to another Olympic athlete. I looked at contents of my shopping cart and wondered, which item I could get them to autograph! That is until I overheard them talking…

You see, I thought only you and me suffered from confidence problems. I thought we were only ones who’d looked at a guy and thought he’d never feel attracted to a women like us. I thought we were only ones who felt unworthy of going for better job. I thought we were only ones who over ate. I thought we were only ones who talked ourselves down and felt like we don’t deserve anything nice. But what I discovered is that we’re not.

Standing in that queue on Sunday taught me that an Olympic athlete has gold medal of lowest confidence, and, to be honest she can have it!

“Hi there Nancy.

”I have been reading over your info. My birthday is July 25, 1975. I am a little confused about your website. In one section, it says that my Saturn return happened Aug. 29, 2004-Sept. 6, 2004. In another section, it says that it is also happening again this coming May for 10 days. Are there 2 in one year? Can you explain this?

"I went through a horrible period of sudden health problems, anxiety, and emotional despair out of nowhere during period in Aug.-Sept. It was one of most frightening periods of my life. I haven't felt like my old self completely since. I never had any anxiety in my life, but it has been coming and going since then. Do you have any insight? I am really not looking forward to something similar in May.

”Thanks so much for any help. i appreciate it. Take care. Talk to you soon. Best- AR"

I wanted to share AR’s letter with you because her questions are such good ones. Not everyone has as tough a time with their Saturn Return as poor AR. I really feel for her. But many do and it’s time to prepare for this mighty event in your life if you’re between 28-30 years old.

This was my answer.

There are usually three times when Saturn is at exact place it was when you were born, Saturn Return. For AR this will be: 1.August 29-September 6, 2004 2.January 13-23, 2005 3.May17-26, 2005

For some people it only happens once but that is unusual. For most people it is three different times within a period of about a year. On my site I indicate first of three dates because of time and space constraints. If you get a full reading from me or another astrologer, you will be given exact three dates.

The point of Saturn Return though is this statement: "I haven't felt like my old self completely since".

AR will not ever be same because Saturn Return is an initiation. Her old self is no more!