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Is Silence Really Golden? By Oscar Bruce

"DEAR Dr. OSCAR. Why does this happen to me? Someone introduces themselves to me. I tell them my name. Then suddenly I realize I can not recall their name."

MY RESPONSE... "Simple, you didn't forget their name - you never really heard it in first place. Your focus was on yourself and not other person."

A Zen phrase says, "To see, you must get out of middle of picture." Remember - you're in middle of your own picture. So, how best to move focus from yourself to others?

The great psychologist, Carl Rogers, said, "Listening is most powerful force we know for releasing potential in others. Real communication occurs when we listen with understanding - to see idea and attitude from other person's point of view, to sense how it feels to them, to achieve their frame of reference in regard to thing they are talking about." This is key to becoming a master motivator and persuader.

Dale Carnegie, father of positive thinking, said, "You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years trying to get other people interested in you".

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Silence of The Lambs by Oscar Bruce

He stands back, avoiding holding eye contact or speaking up. His heart beats rapidly, and he is aware of perspiration, and butterflies in stomach. If you sometimes experience these symptoms in social or business situations you have a lot of company.

Now imagine, vividly, a new book in your hands that answers these questions.

Social psychologists disclose "excessive shyness" is a growing social epidemic. In fact, it is now third most prevalent psychiatric disorder.

Shy people obviously have trouble meeting people, forming relationships, and participating in life. They are often lonely and frustrated.