How many times in a day, week, month . . . in your lifetime are you busy - doing anything - and phone rings?Out of all those times phone rings, how many times do you stop what you're doing to answer it?
I'll bet it's a lot. 90%? 95%? I don't know for sure but I'm guessing it's up there.
I know because I used to stop whatever I was doing to answer it. Didn't matter what I was doing, I would just stop - and answer phone.
Until one day something dawned on me:
I don't HAVE to answer it! It's not required. I can let it ring and let my answering machine get it. After all, that's what it's designed to do.
It used to annoy heck out of my wife when phone would ring - right next to me - and I would ignore it (inasmuch as you can ignore a ringing phone). She would rush for phone saying "Geez . . . aren't you gonna answer that?". And I'd ask "Why?"
And for a long time I wondered why people stop whatever they're doing and answer their phone.
The answer is simple - because we're conditioned to, that's why. Sure, you could argue - Because it could be important; What if it's my broker with a hot tip; What if it's an emergency.
The bottom line is, though, it's all conditioning. Just look around you on any given day in any given location. People can't even leave home without a telephone!
Conditioning.
I would love to be able to get my readers to just stop whatever they were doing when my newsletter hits their mailbox and read it from start to finish. Better still, to purchase products I recommend. Wouldn't that be great?
Well, we may never be able to achieve that level of conditioning, but there are some things you can do to help stop conditioned response of just deleting your emails before they're read.
First and foremost, you must build and earn their trust. People are by and large conditioned to "shoot first - ask questions later". At least until they get to know and trust you. Building trust takes work and honesty, so keep at it.