The Power of Self-Motivation by L SailajaHow are you feeling today? Happy, sad, frustrated, dejected? Or, are you feeling/experiencing a state that cannot be described in words? In an age which is marked by ever-increasing competition and overpowering work/life balance, it is crucial to maintain equilibrium between intellectual strength and inner strength.
Despite
fact that we have to interact with a number of people and face pleasant as well as unpleasant situations, it is extremely important to retain faith in yourself at
end of
day.
When things are going
way we want to/the way we had wished to, everyday would be hassle-free. But, you have to brace yourself to deal with
very best and
very worst of everything. Sometimes, things go out of hand and we tend to be at
receiving end. This is
time to motivate yourself to get out of
whirlpool of negative emotions. Negative emotions have a notorious capability of suppressing positive emotions. Therefore, you need to adopt MBMs (Motivation-Building Measures) to feel better and perform better:
(1)Recognize Inner Strength: Everyone has
capability to achieve their goals. What is important is to realize
inherent potential in ourselves. More often than not, intellectual strength assumes greater significance when you are making
all-important presentation, appearing for an exam or attending an interview. However,
real hero is ‘inner strength’ which makes you feel
positive energy and gives you
extra edge when it comes to facing tough situations.
(2)Avoid Negative Emotions: It is human to experience all kinds of emotions. But, some emotions tend to overpower
positive energy in ourselves. When you fell ill/lost a loved one, did not perform up to
mark, were hurt by someone, it is natural to experience feelings of anger, frustration, helplessness, self-pity. We are not immune to negative emotions—we must know when to suppress their influence on our minds.
Cultivate a hobby, read, sing, write or do whatever you feel like to relax. Motivate yourself to feel good about yourself and get on with life.
(3)Try to be Strong against Unreasonable Circumstances: It is not an easy task to undermine
power of annoying people or a hostile environment. These external agents have an uncanny ability to snuff out your confidence level and make you feel uncomfortable. However, no one/situation is larger than life itself. When you have
inner desire to motivate yourself, irrespective of unkind words/actions, you will appreciate
need to feel good about yourself and set about your tasks with increased enthusiasm and confidence.