There are simple (but not necessarily easy) ways to choose a name for your baby. There are also complex, involved ways. And there are certainly more than 8 ways that parents have used to decide on a name. If you've been at it awhile, you know finding a just-right fit when it comes to choosing a name can be a challenging process. Maybe these suggestions can help sort things out a little.A NAME YOU'VE ALWAYS LOVED
1. Perhaps you went to school with a Miranda who had a great personality, good looks and was an A student. Since then you've never met a Miranda you didn't like. You like
sound of Miranda. You like
fact that it derives from
Latin mirandus which means "wonderful." There are no gender issues with
name. It's exclusively feminine. And you like
way it goes with your last name. No naming book is necessary for you. For your baby girl's name, it has to be Miranda. So
first way -- a simple, no-fuss way -- to name a baby is simply to choose a name that appeals to you.
A NAME THAT'S BEEN IN THE FAMILY
2. There's been a Rodney or a Stan in
family for generations. You'd like to preserve that continuity. Suggestion #2 as a way to name a baby is to choose a family name. Happily, you're not hampered by a strict protocol for naming your baby,
way it used to be in many cultures. The Scottish naming pattern in
past, for example, meant that
first son was named after his father. The second son after his mother's father. The first daughter was named for her mother's mother, and
second daughter named for her father's mother. Since families were much larger just a few generations ago, naming patterns could be quite elaborate. A NAME THAT REFLECTS YOUR ROOTS
3. Most of us will automatically consider ethnic names without even realizing it since they are a part of
culture we live in. It's not likely that a Russian is going to choose a Japanese name and vice versa. Since most of us have ethnic pride and want to connect and preserve our ethnic roots,
names common to our culture are
obvious choice. Just be careful when considering an ethnic name that it compliments
last name. Patrick sounds better with O'Brien than, say, Juan does. How to name a baby suggestion #3 is to explore your ethnic roots. Branch out from your family tree and learn a little history of who your people are and
names they've used and loved.
A NAME BY THE NUMBERS
4. If you have a lucky number or believe that
universe is guided by numerical patterns, numerology might be a method to consider in choosing a name. According to this metaphysical science, all numbers have a vibration that indicates our potential attitudes, talents and traits. Numerologists work with a "core" digit by reducing double digits to a single number. So, there are only 9 personality numbers. In one system of numerology, (There are several including
Pythagorean, Chinese and Chaldean system.) for instance, say you like
attributes that are associated with
number 5 which are adventure, excitement and change. You would then calculate
core number of your last name and choose a name that, when combined with
surname, would equal 5. Of course, numerology can be much more elaborate than this, bringing in energy balances, formulas for blending harmonious and disharmonious aspects and Master Numbers that aren't reduced.
A NAME IN HARMONY WITH THE STARS
5. Do you read your horoscope every day and think there just might be something to
notion that
planets influence our lives? Then consider consulting an astrologer to suggest a name. Or you could choose a name, according to
birthstone,
flower or colors associated with your baby's birth month. For example,
daisy is associated with
sign of Taurus. Jasmine is associated with Gemini, and
diamond birthstone is associated with Aries. Additionally, archangels are supposedly associated with astrological elements and act as guardians to those born in their assigned month. Their names would also make interesting name choices: Anael (ah-nay-el) -- Libra Cassiel (kass-ee-ell) -- Capricorn Raphael -- Gemini and Virgo Sachiel (sa-chee-ell) -- Sagittarius Gabriel -- Cancer Samael or Samuel -- Aries Michael -- Leo Uriel -- Aquarius Azrael (AZ-ree-ell) -- Scorpio Auriel -- (or-ree-ell) -- Taurus Asariel -- (ah-sah-ree-ell) Pisces